Have you ever had a spouse/girlfriend/boyfrie nd do drugs and you dont? Well I have and it never works out, I have seen two pot smokers go on and marry and live with each other for the rest of their lives, thats messed up, especially when and if they have kids right? What I am getting at is I have never seen one druggie and one non-druggie hook up and make it work, it goes the same with some drinkers and cig smokers... the other partner just cannot take it or things get heated, or people get dumb. Have you seen some of the things they do? Have you ever seen a post in a newspaper saying "Blah blah is not responsible for jon does bills" That is just ridiculous, it is not like they decide anyways, really it is up to the judge... tell me your experiences and what or how two people from different sides would try to get along?
Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? Have you ever dealt with not getting any? Well, you have come to the right blog... I want to hear your horror storys... ok well it isnt horrible but rather your storys of Frustration.........
So what is the F'n deal... people do not want to own up to their own mistakes! people always blaming other people! how about they start owning up to their own faults. It is getting sick the way these people treat others... you know who you are.
For instance, you are an Anal person if you 1. Always create excuses 2. Always Have a problem with someone or something 3. Do not understand how it could be your fault, your perfect 4. See yourself as being the best person to ever walk the earth Do you find Yourself in this position? are you an A-hole? Well dont worry God will sort you out when you are released from your body!!
Peace and Love
Dating: girls talking to other guys? good bad and the ugly
What are the rules to dating? Does anyone know? I am sure there are people out in the world who could certainly come up with some great ones that I would agree with! However, is it right or is it not right for girls to talk to boys, call boys, hang out with boys who they are not dating, while dating? Is it a social standard? Is it a stereotype? Is it taboo? Lets remember I am not talking about a "Tom-Boy or Tom-Girl" I am talking about a straight up girly girl. So whats the deal... can a guy get mad at his girlfriend for other guys calling her at night on the weekends? How about if the guy is asking about parties and what not? How about if a guy gets on the phone and asks her to have sex with him? Does the boyfriend deserve to be upset? I certainly know some guys personally who would call the guy back and bitch at him and some other guys who would find the guy and start a fight with him. So I ask you the listeners, what do you think is the right way for a girl to act? what are your rules? and what do you think?
Sad, mad, upset, crabby... how to feel when I am down? I don't know what to say or do to make things feel right. I feel like I have let others as well as my self down. I have not adjusted my life style as much as I would of liked it to be at this point in my life. Is flirting bad? Is flirting good? I guess it depends on what the situation is... my encounter was obviously bad from my perspective because I didn't like how I felt when i realized what was going on; how would Stefanie felt if she walked into a store and saw me in a flirtacious situation? would she be happy... I do not think so, and I know that if I walked in on her in that situation I would flip. I guess it all goes back to the beginning of my life where I learned all of my morals and all of my vales of how I should be living life. Back then I learned that when you are with a partner, that you cannot switch between partners and live with yourself. No, I learned that I was suppose to disengage my entire self from my partners life before I move on to the next partner. So when I catch myself in the act or getting acted upon... I feel guilty and I feel horrible. Have you lived with guilt? How ridiculous of me to ask, every person has guilt in there life. For instance, Sigmund Freud explains about the Super Ego which gives us our guilt and how a person cannot survive without the super ego... With that being said... Do I have to much Super Ego? Am I that Analytical of myself? Some would agree that I have a large super ego on the basis that I am writing this out and sharing it with the world... I disagree about that, I feel like I am releasing tension and trying to restore balance to this life I live... that would be termed the Ego = balance and Id = pleasure, releasing. So here I sit, wondering if Stefanie will read this? Will she, Should She, or Shouldn't she? What is your opinions listeners? What do you think? Untill later... Peace and Love to all those above
STORY --- Sometimes in life people get thrown some screwballs and they do not know how to handle them. For instance, suppose a guy has a girlfriend and they like to bicker about small things every once in a while. Now the story goes like this: most of her "Old" friends, Old as in she has not hung out with for over a year or two... ok, well they are mostly guys, who do not have the healthiest of habits. They are pot smokers and alcoholics who like to party and go on roadies. For those out there who do not know what a roadie is... it is when a bunch of people get in a vehicle and go drinking and driving and possible doing drugs. Now she wants to be able to go out to partys, alone and with out her boyfriend. The boyfriend however, thinks she should not be getting involved in this because he believes that there are certain rules to dating, and that one of them is not going out to partys without him even though she says that she isn't going to do drugs. Now, for those out there who don't know the law, it roughly reads that any person [a.k.a. the girlfriend] who is intoxicated and gets in to a sexual encounter is percieved as Rape. Now, the boyfriend knows this and expresses his concern. However the girlfriend says that these are her old friends and that she can trust them guys... well the boyfriend talks some more to her about how most rapists are good friends with the victims and how the victim feels comfortable with them before the attack. Now, with all of this information in mind with rape, date rape drugs, drugs and alcohol... what would you do? Could you trust her friends? Alcoholic pot smokers who do nothing with their lives? How would you feel about it? How would you perceive the situation? Would you be in comfort letting the girlfriend go? How would you react if you were the girl and you were in this situation? Peace and Love to all above...
Flirt as defined in the Merrian Webster Online Dictionary "to behave amorously without serious intent b : to show superficial or casual interest or liking"... Now I dont know about the rest of you out there but I have a problem with this! Whether it is my good looks, my great personality, or my Presence in a room... I constantly feel like I am getting hit on or I am being flirted with. Now I know it takes two ta' tango but I feel like lately I have not been self aware of this and why it continued to go on... at least untill yesterday. What happened is the usual talking to people however all of a sudden I found myself in this flirt-acious? conversation... I began to wonder about my loyalty, my dedication, and my love to my sweet heart Stefanie. I had to put my foot down on girl I was talking to and I had to put my foot down on myself... Sorry to all of those out there that i might have hurt, I felt like i was cheating or i was doing something wrong against my morals, I had to stop. Please forgive me Stefanie, I love you with all of my heart.... Peace and Love to all above, T-wolves rocked the house 84-82 up 3-1 against Nuggets
Into the Life of Justin Engelmann... Today is a great day, Today is beutiful... Ok I know what you Minnesotans are thinking "50 degrees, cloudy, and breezy" yeah I know, however I am feeling great today... last night I had one of the best talks with my darling Stefanie. We talked about all sorts of things' and we are pretty close to agreeing on some of the same morals and values... sorry I cannot go into it. Also, updates and more updates have been coming to the site as I move on up the road learning more and more about HTML and the wonderful world of Computer technology! So I bet you are wondering "why did all of a sudden switch to TBLOG?" well let me tell you, it was a move my older brother joe made, and i made it as well... the reasons go like this: more space, more consitancy, more order, neatness, better organized, time saver, and best of all Free!!! so you can't beat that with a 10 ft. stick. Peace and Love to all you out there... go T-wolves vs Denver Tonight on TNT and FSN.... remember God is a T-wolves fan!!!!!
Hi there kids, Here with my first BLOGGGGGGGGG!! grrr isn't that scary sounding? well just had to make sure this works before I start using it.. check back again! peace and Love to everyone above
